02/29 REAL TALK IN RELATIONSHIPS: You can't hide from love!

How often have you tried to hide from the people who love you?

How often have you held them away when they wanted to know something that was important to you, or maybe even withheld information from them or telling them things, so that you can refrain from being in the spotlight?

Well, I got news for you...
You can't hide from love, and neither can I.

It's the very fabric that ties us to everything that we do. It's the passion that gets us up in the morning... if in fact we allow passion to wake us up in the morning.

Some of us get up just to pay bills. Is this you? If so, then you should find some love...

Chances are you don't have to look very far, allow the people around you to actually enter your life. Most of us have been hurt in the past, and others have just recently been hurt for the first time, and never want to feel it again. Maybe by a husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, mom, dad, sister, or brother -- no matter who you may be holding a grudge against, just know that you're holding one against yourself too. It was you being brave enough to put yourself on the line and be vulnerable that allowed you to get hurt -- and that -- taking chances -- is the very experience of being alive.

To ride a bike you have to get on, and to be alive you have to jump in the game and get on the court, and when you're in the game and on the court you now have chances of both winning and losing.

Are you hiding from love? (Also known as attention, support, the spotlight, care, etc.)

You are being heard here at Real Talk. This IS about you.

It's a great day! Enjoy.

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01/09 REAL TALK IN RELATIONSHIPS: Put it in! That's what it's made for...

How do you have sex?

Chances are whomever you are being in the bedroom is who you are being in life.
Are you the aggressor; are you submissive, even better – do you check out? Are you present, or are you thinking of your presence?

Most of us are too busy trying to look good and “perform” for others, and it usually depends on how related we are to the person.

How does the way you have sex show up in your life?

Real Talk is about having REAL conversation. It’s beyond the superficial, so go beyond the surface level on this; take it to the place where you are not usually willing to go in your everyday talk with family, friends, and colleagues.

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